83 Answers »
Why do I keep this relationship when I know it’s not going anywhere and there’s nothing in it for me.
Him. And me. And how he’s so innocent. And how I’m so disgusting. And how much I want to know him. And how I’ll ruin him when I do. And how I shouldn’t want to. And how I do, anyway. And how the past will eat me alive…
“Have I been spending enough time enjoying the simple things in life?”
The hole in my heart he left when he left.
Trying to get my abortion done.
I’m sad but laughing. Love is the hardest thing that I have ever fought for, I refuse to let it go. Even when I cry I know that better days are ahead.
what am i going 2 do aftrer college ?what are my career goals????????
A guy I have been in love/lust with for two years.
Guys, school, work, do I really want to go to college right away?
Unfortunately , him . And what we had.
And how I miss him , soooo much .
Where is my life going? What do I really want? What do I need? Can I do this? Why am I such a fuck up? How will I cope? What if I fail? What if I lose her? … What would I have left if that happened?
I know it can work. It’s not so much about luck, but more about the decisions we make. I need a good spell. The universe owes it to me through the law of averages.
A relationship breakdown, and how much I miss him, but know he is not good for me, he just told me this weekend that he has been seeing someone else…I feel shattered.
Is it gonna hurt and will it be wonderful as everyone says
How am I going to get out of here without failing?
guys, I know when a relationship falls apart, us being human and easily attached, we tend to get extremely emotional. Unreasonably emotional. Like you don’t feel like eating, smiling, talking, or living in general. You feel that you are not good enough, where did it go wrong, if only you can turn back time and undo the things that are now too late.
But this burden always goes away with time. I been there too less than 3 months ago. And without myself even realizing, I had become so attached to this person and their every little characteristics that I could not accept the idea that I will never be able to share their intimacy and companionship anymore. Funny thing is, I didn’t even like him at first. I was a major commitment phobe who hated opening up to people and hated the idea of vulnerability.
It took me a lot of making-a-fool-outta-myself and time and willpower to eventually get over him.
But I took more goods out of this than bads
1. Even though we were totally not made for each other and the relationship didn’t last, he has opened up my eyes on relationships and commitments. I am no longer scared of commitments. In the end, they define what your needs are through experience and trial and error. We live in a world of billions of humans. How do we know which one best suits you? You come back up and when you find someone you click with, take a risk and make the best of it. BECAUSE TIME WILL HEAL EVERYTHING. TRUST ME. THERE IS A REASON WHY YOU GUYS BROKE UP IN THE FIRST PLACE.
2. I knew that him and I were not meant to be. Saw it coming miles before the finish line. Yet, I did not want to throw away all the time and effort put into it so I kept trying. Somehow, I think we were both on the same page. We care deeply about each other and we knew this was best for both of us. I wanted him to meet the girl of his dreams who will understand him better and vice versa. He wished the same for me. IF WE HADN’T GONE THRU THIS AT THAT PARTICULAR TIME, I WOULD NEVER HAVE FOUND OUT THAT MY CLOSE FRIEND(SAM) OF 2 YEARS COULD BE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE. 😉
BUT LET ME JUST SAY, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS AREN’T EVERYTHING. YES, AS HUMANS WE YEARN THE TOUCH OF WARMTH FROM ANOTHER HUMAN BEING, WANTING TO SHARE DEEP SECRETS, CARING FOR, WANTING TO BE CARED FOR. BUT RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE MADE WITH ANYONE, NOT NECESSARILY A LOVER. FRIEND, PARENT, SISTER, BROTHER. AND THESE RELATIONSHIPS ARE JUST AS IMPORTANT IF NOT MORE..
I HAVE BEEN THRU SOME BULLSHIT SHIT AND IF IT WASN’T FOR MY BEST FRIEND JASON, I WOULD NOT BE HERE RIGHT NOW. WE OFTEN DO NOT KNOW HOW MENTALLY STRONG WE ARE CAPABLE OF BEING UNTIL SOMEONE ELSE, USUALLY A FRIEND, NEEDS US IN THEIR TIME OF DESPAIR.
I HAVE NO IDEA WHERE I WAS GOING WITH THIS… SHIT. BUT YEAH THIS WAS WHAT WAS ON MY MIND RECENTLY.
LATELY THO, I’M WORRYING ABOUT FINDING A STABLE JOB. I’M BROKE YO! AND I GOTTA SUPPORT MYSELF.
LOOKING FOR WAYS TO HUSTLE. STAYIN ON THE GRIND.
she has been. ALL the time. now she is getting married. i had a shot a while back. i blew it. i am such an idiot.
Doing thing that have the most of impact and leaving all the rest undone.
trying to figure out apathy. trying to dispel this nasty feeling. wondering what’s going to happen next, wondering if i will ever have the courage to end this relationship and move on. hoping that i don’t screw myself up too bad.
When will this insanity end?!
Graduating college next semester and what comes next
bad family memories.
Did she ever love me? Or was I just a tool to get to someone else. Why did she have to break my heart? Am I not good enough? what did I do wrong? Would she care if I killed myself? Would she KNOW if I did? Who would care if I did? why can’t I fall In love like everyone else? Why am I so afraid of the future?
Will we make it through this like we said we would?
When will I be healed? Will I ever be healed? Am I damaged goods?
Why is everything so difficult?
Is he going to do the same thing the last one did?
if im crazy… and if im being a burden on my friends and housemates
Thinking of the sacrifices I could do for Holy Week.
im not ready for forever..
What do I want to be when I grow up….Im 32 years old
Mail (will not be published) (required)