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To live each and every day with a sense of wonder and awe – no matter where you are, what you are doing, or who you are with.
It’s not forever.
To take a breathe and realize that no matter what I’m going through, this moment will pass.
To look for the best in people no matter the situation. Then remind them of it. When you genuinely give encouragement and joy, it wells up in you as well.
That we have to let go and move on in order to be truly happy.
But, I still don’t know how to let go. And it’s killing me.
To have pride in myself and know that I am doing better for myself.
that it doesn’t matter what they think- if I’m doing my best, than I’m doing my best.
If you love someone, sometimes you have to let them go. But don’t ever stop being there for them whenever they need you.
I’m learning it right now: My Ego is the single source of all of the problems that I have dealt with and currently deal with in life. And for the last several months I thought I had a pretty good handle on it, only to find that it is only stronger and more entrenched in my identity that I realized.
forgive and forget
and don’t wait for someone to come back, move on, make new friends, be happy.
Don’t chase after people who don’t want you. Find the people who care about you, and stick with them.
You have to work to get what you want and there is nothing wrong with being who you are
Anything is possible with the right motivation.
A number of things have been significant; The discovery that cheating is almost the worst thing you can do to a person you supposedly love. The lesson that if you focus too much on one goal, the rest of your life can fall apart and leave you stranded, especially when you fail to achieve that goal. The idea that in the lowest times, you find out who your friends are when they’re the ones who pull you out of the shit and get you back on your feet.
Most important lesson though, was probably that sometimes, perseverance and hope are the most powerful attributes you can have. I’ve been on both ends of seeing just how much of a difference it can make, not giving up on something or someone.
To not be afraid of stepping out of my comfort zone, still learning that one…
to finally live outside of my comfort zone for the first time
Sometimes the things that scare you are actually the best things that happen in your life.
Fear gets in the way and tells you all the things that are what you don’t want, but pushing that fear aside can be so good for you, and possibly others too.
That things get better, even if it seems like they never will
Be Independent, in whatever situation
To cherish life because its not going to last forever and to have the strength and courage to fight for life. Make the best of the worst.
That everyone makes mistakes. As long as you learn from it, you won’t be forever ruined because of your mistakes.
Change isn’t the end of the world. You can get used to anything, adapt. No matter what, I will be okay.
Let life happen. Take things as they come and figure it out as you go along.
That when you are following your dreams, life still has it’s snags, but they only make it all so much more worth it in the end.
Love and accept yourself exactly the way you are
Trust no one but yourself.
To embrace the lessons each loved one I bring into my life has to offer; those I choose to surround myself with bring definition to my ambition – let them in…. Let them IN!
It’s better to be rejected or disappointed than to never be known. Let people in, even if you are afraid of getting hurt. You aren’t the only one that feels alone.
That I should teach more.
To poop regularly
ive learned a lot.
that your “best friends” will backstab you, cause all the drama in your life, and try to blame it on you. some best friends will never leave you, even if you totally shut them out because of a significant other. after you break up, if they were a true best friend, they will be right there waiting, no matter how long. some people dont deserve you.
and probably the one that affects me the most, the minute you least expect it, you could fall in love with your best friend. and it may be bad timing, but it may also be the best thing that could ever happen.
I’ve learned that life is short. I’ve learned that life is too short to live unhappily. That you can be here one minute and gone the next. So live, love laugh, and enjoy yourself while you still can.
To work towards your goals.
Trust builds love, and if there is no trust there can not be love.
It’s okay to ask for help.
Years ago I expected to ‘raid the fridge’. And instead of finding the fridge, I found the broom closet. For years I have regretted it, but now I know:
That you don’t get fat raiding the broom closet.
That the doorway of the broom closet is probably warmer than the doorway of the fridge, even though you may not notice that straight away.
That although the broom closet is dark and scary, it’d definitely more interesting than the fridge.
And you can always put a light in it.
The broom closet offers more surprises, more variety, and more just plain interesting contents than any fridge ever did!
If you are not happy about where your life is heading, it’s never too late to change it.
why live life doing things you dont want to do. live your own life
To be patient when waiting for the person you love.
no ones who they say they are
To take actions which inspire yourself, rather than waiting for someone else to show you the way
That even though life was wonderful with her, I can live without her if I must.
don’t trust just everyone and anyone.
Stand up for what you believe in, and don’t back down if it compromises you.
no matter how much you wish that person would love you over their significant other, they will never leave them for you or they would’ve already done it. so just wait and eventually YOUR someone will come around for YOU.
That after all is said & done, life goes on. I don’t know what the future holds, but I know I will survive. (and if I don’t well then I have nothing else to worry about ;P )
Love really does heal, even more empathy, friends really will be there, it really does get better, you are loved and someone’s reason to smile-everyone is, reaching out for help is a sign of strength and not weakness.
I can do anything and develop my skills with God’s help and those around me.
to let the past go.
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