Don’t take what you have right now for granted 🙂
Heather:
A physical connection with one person will not make up for the emotional connection that you lost with another.
jw:
one lie leads to another lie
m:
Life is beautiful.
RAS:
I am happy, I feel good inside and out and I have someone amazing to share that with.
DSL:
Not to keep everything to myself, but talk about the things that bother me.
Tiva:
No matter how long you have been friends with someone, no matter what you have gone through or shared with one another… some people just cannot forgive. And there’s nothing you can do to get their trust back.
Another thing I’ve learned is that I am stronger than any addicition that has hold of me.
Danny:
No matter how well you pay someone, after a short while, they believe they deserve more.
Eric:
Love needs to be maintained.
Lost love hurts.
Justin:
That you shouldn’t worry about the future so much. That when it comes to dating, enjoy the moment, don’t think of what will happen next. That you shouldn’t bother caring about finding someone else, you should bother focusing on yourself because that’s what important
Justin:
Opps, didn’t finish. Because you are the person you will live with for the rest of your life. If someone amazing come along, that’s great. Do something that is best for you.
sarah:
you have two kinds of friends: the ones that will be with you for all the (really) hard times, and then the ones that will bail on you. its okay to have both, but for your friends, always be the one who sticks by them, because you might be surprised by the ones that stick by you too.
Dan:
Some friends drift apart from you; others come along in due time.
Kat:
You can’t just give your heart away make sure they are forereal and make sure they deserve your trust and love.
B3SH0Y:
not to be blinded by trust, and to never trust anyone.
That regret is a cancer and that without clearance to forgive yourself, you slowly die inside. Take it from someone who has held on to regret for every single action they can remember.
Ael:
That I’m only as strong as I believe I am, and that no matter how much you want to, you can’t hold on to love that wants to leave.
sweetpea:
Don’t spend more on your credit cards then you can pay back. They will RUIN you life.
You can only handle so much physically, mentally, and emotionally before the body will rebel and say “I’VE HAD ENOUGH!”
Bernice Are you too busy to be yourself?
me:
to stop trying to please others while I’m miserable
Kristy:
That you can’t trust anyone. Even family. They’ll all screw you over in the end.
manny:
which one didn’t i learn the hard way?
none.
you have to bleed to breathe.
mad:
vodka, wine, gin and a few pills….DONT GO.
Bruce:
You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you just might find you get what you need.
Denise:
That “Playing life on the safe side” is the worst way to live, and its just an excuse to be scared
Amanda:
Change is inevitable. Sometimes you can’t control it, as much as you may want to.
Lin:
That You can’t treat people as if they were THINGS without feelings. Things that are here only to satisfy my needs. People too have feelings, thoughts and the right to be a human being, not a stone.
I made this mistake twice, maybe more, and I think I won’t learn this life lesson because I keep doing this mistake. One person doesn’t talk to me anymore and I don’t know what to do to gain his respect again, because I miss him.
I don’t deserve to have friends.
licia:
That running from your past does not work. The only way to overcome the bad things in life, is to accept them and realize that they were not your fault. Things happen for a reason. (and of course i lose my train of thought, so it’s time to go)
Kelly:
If you don’t love what you do, don’t do it.
I took ten APs in high school because I thought it would be worth getting into a good college. It’s not.
I think, above all, that the most important one of those is that learning lessons practically (“The hard way”) isn’t always a bad thing.
Experience over comfort.
Caitlin:
A one-sided relationship is not a relationship at all. I love him and he allows it. Now, we both pay the price.
nocturnesthesia:
You might not be proud of who you are or where you came from, but there’s no reason to be ashamed, either. Don’t bother trying to reinvent yourself for other people, it just isn’t worth the effort. You are who you are. Be it, own it, love it. You’ll find out who your real friends are.
Brittany:
Don’t take this moment–this VERY second, for granted. Tell people you love them while they (and you) are still alive, because tomorrow is not promised. One of my closest friends died a couple years go and it made me realize how much stuff we take for granted on a daily basis. Just the sun shining on your face is a blessing. Blinking is a blessing. Taking a deep breath of air is a blessing. We worry so much about the future–next week, next month, years from now–and fail to realize that the next 10 seconds aren’t even promised.
Drew:
The big ones. The simple truths. Everything after that I thought too much about and destroyed myself and I can’t help it.
Jon:
Things worth having are worth working for.
Nick:
Grab the opportunity when it comes.
kp:
Not to trust so easily. Not to believe in destiny and not to believe that anything is capable of lasting forever. That sometimes what you want most is what you are best without. Once a cheater always a cheater. Being soft gets you nowhere. Never do something that you cannot undo.
******:
Doing drugs really does mess up your life.
Copper:
People will use you. If you think you can be in a one-sided relationship, don’t. Someone always gets hurt.
bc:
trust is impossible to come by
Darky.:
Don’t sacrifice yourself for your friends – they’re using you. Real friendship doesn’t exist and nobody returns favors.
Henrik Johansson:
If you belive in your heart that you can do something you can! its all about how you think and look at things.. when you start to look at things differently things start to look different 🙂
Blocking out the past does not mean it will not come back to haunt you, especially when you least expect it.
As much as you want and wish to, you can’t control how other people choose to act and behave.
Don’t take chances with your heart. It hurts more than you could have ever thought.
Don’t take what you have right now for granted 🙂
A physical connection with one person will not make up for the emotional connection that you lost with another.
one lie leads to another lie
Life is beautiful.
I am happy, I feel good inside and out and I have someone amazing to share that with.
Not to keep everything to myself, but talk about the things that bother me.
No matter how long you have been friends with someone, no matter what you have gone through or shared with one another… some people just cannot forgive. And there’s nothing you can do to get their trust back.
Another thing I’ve learned is that I am stronger than any addicition that has hold of me.
No matter how well you pay someone, after a short while, they believe they deserve more.
Love needs to be maintained.
Lost love hurts.
That you shouldn’t worry about the future so much. That when it comes to dating, enjoy the moment, don’t think of what will happen next. That you shouldn’t bother caring about finding someone else, you should bother focusing on yourself because that’s what important
Opps, didn’t finish. Because you are the person you will live with for the rest of your life. If someone amazing come along, that’s great. Do something that is best for you.
you have two kinds of friends: the ones that will be with you for all the (really) hard times, and then the ones that will bail on you. its okay to have both, but for your friends, always be the one who sticks by them, because you might be surprised by the ones that stick by you too.
Some friends drift apart from you; others come along in due time.
You can’t just give your heart away make sure they are forereal and make sure they deserve your trust and love.
not to be blinded by trust, and to never trust anyone.
divorce is not the solution. it’s like suicide.
That regret is a cancer and that without clearance to forgive yourself, you slowly die inside. Take it from someone who has held on to regret for every single action they can remember.
That I’m only as strong as I believe I am, and that no matter how much you want to, you can’t hold on to love that wants to leave.
Don’t spend more on your credit cards then you can pay back. They will RUIN you life.
Don’t lie about who you are on the internet.
You can only handle so much physically, mentally, and emotionally before the body will rebel and say “I’VE HAD ENOUGH!”
Bernice
Are you too busy to be yourself?
to stop trying to please others while I’m miserable
That you can’t trust anyone. Even family. They’ll all screw you over in the end.
which one didn’t i learn the hard way?
none.
you have to bleed to breathe.
vodka, wine, gin and a few pills….DONT GO.
You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you just might find you get what you need.
That “Playing life on the safe side” is the worst way to live, and its just an excuse to be scared
Change is inevitable. Sometimes you can’t control it, as much as you may want to.
That You can’t treat people as if they were THINGS without feelings. Things that are here only to satisfy my needs. People too have feelings, thoughts and the right to be a human being, not a stone.
I made this mistake twice, maybe more, and I think I won’t learn this life lesson because I keep doing this mistake. One person doesn’t talk to me anymore and I don’t know what to do to gain his respect again, because I miss him.
I don’t deserve to have friends.
That running from your past does not work. The only way to overcome the bad things in life, is to accept them and realize that they were not your fault. Things happen for a reason. (and of course i lose my train of thought, so it’s time to go)
If you don’t love what you do, don’t do it.
I took ten APs in high school because I thought it would be worth getting into a good college. It’s not.
You can’t trust everyone.
I’ve learned a few.
I think, above all, that the most important one of those is that learning lessons practically (“The hard way”) isn’t always a bad thing.
Experience over comfort.
A one-sided relationship is not a relationship at all. I love him and he allows it. Now, we both pay the price.
You might not be proud of who you are or where you came from, but there’s no reason to be ashamed, either. Don’t bother trying to reinvent yourself for other people, it just isn’t worth the effort. You are who you are. Be it, own it, love it. You’ll find out who your real friends are.
Don’t take this moment–this VERY second, for granted. Tell people you love them while they (and you) are still alive, because tomorrow is not promised. One of my closest friends died a couple years go and it made me realize how much stuff we take for granted on a daily basis. Just the sun shining on your face is a blessing. Blinking is a blessing. Taking a deep breath of air is a blessing. We worry so much about the future–next week, next month, years from now–and fail to realize that the next 10 seconds aren’t even promised.
The big ones. The simple truths. Everything after that I thought too much about and destroyed myself and I can’t help it.
Things worth having are worth working for.
Grab the opportunity when it comes.
Not to trust so easily. Not to believe in destiny and not to believe that anything is capable of lasting forever. That sometimes what you want most is what you are best without. Once a cheater always a cheater. Being soft gets you nowhere. Never do something that you cannot undo.
Doing drugs really does mess up your life.
People will use you. If you think you can be in a one-sided relationship, don’t. Someone always gets hurt.
trust is impossible to come by
Don’t sacrifice yourself for your friends – they’re using you. Real friendship doesn’t exist and nobody returns favors.
If you belive in your heart that you can do something you can! its all about how you think and look at things.. when you start to look at things differently things start to look different 🙂