Question 669

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56 Responses to “Question 669”

  1. Drew:

    The stupidest things.

  2. Lack of trust.

  3. Kat:

    lack of trust, openness and honesty

  4. Heather:

    dishonesty and obsessing

  5. Wesley:

    lying and lack of communication

  6. Michael:

    not wanting to be in it bad enough

  7. Blink:

    No trust or honesty. Or, no dedication to the relationship or the other person

  8. Denise:

    Expectations

  9. sergio:

    expectations , criticism, lack of sex, not being willing to understand the other person and their needs, routine, letting go of yourself and your body.just a few.

  10. Danni:

    jealousy,

  11. Rob:

    Sometimes it’s our own crud that we haven’t dealt with from our past relationships, sometimes it’s simply a personality difference that takes too long to come to the surface. Differing life goals can destroy a relationship as well.

  12. Steven:

    Being with the wrong person n the first place.

  13. sasha:

    -several things-dishonesty, lack of trust, jealousy, putting up with shit when you shouldn’t, not compromising, different paths, DOUBT, etc.

  14. Lazlo:

    unrealistic expectations and lack of communication

  15. Lisa:

    Complacency…taking the person for granted…forgetting why you wanted to be with this person in the first place…not tending to the relationship like a fire…the flames die and what many have written, urealistic expectations of someone else. thinking someone else needs to give you only that which you can give yourself

  16. jenna:

    Lying, pursuing someone else, being unable to compromise and commit

  17. janey:

    Addictions…. nuf said

  18. susan:

    I agree with Denise: EXPECTATIONS.
    Without a doubt.

  19. pnog:

    Secrets

  20. Lack of communication

  21. Julie Takase:

    when you forget to make the most important person in your life important.

  22. Niv:

    disloyalty and lack of trust

  23. zavia:

    others

  24. diane:

    Familiarity

  25. Gracie:

    Most importantly: lack of trust, communication, and commitment. But also complacency, taking someone for granted, and inability to compromise. Relationships are like a fire; you have to keep building and stoking it, or it’ll die out

  26. Jon:

    Marriage.

  27. Robert L:

    Not enough communication, trust or true love for each other

  28. Alicia:

    Inability to compromise or sympathize/empathize, bad communication, disrespect, misunderstandings, pride, unrealistic expectations, harmful addictions/habits

  29. Debbie:

    Ourselves

  30. Laura:

    insensitivity, impulsiveness, and distance

  31. Incrediburgers:

    Consent.

  32. Dishonesty.

    Complacency.

    Inability or unwillingness to appreciate the other person.

  33. Debi:

    The little annoying things that go on and on and on! Selfishness too.

  34. Julie Takase:

    dishonesty.

  35. petchay:

    PRIDE.
    MONEY. (TOO MUCH OF IT OR THE LACK OF IT.)

  36. t:

    lies and insecurities

  37. JakiChase:

    Miscommunication, lack of communication, ignorance, arrogance, and apathy.

  38. Maria:

    LIES AND JELOUSY!

  39. SPatri:

    Miles.

  40. nba:

    FACEBOOK!

  41. Rayton:

    dishonesty and lack of openness.

  42. Ann:

    Dishonesty and lack of trust.

  43. Ria:

    Selfishness, lack of commitment, lack of *healthy* communication.

  44. Evelyn:

    Not saying what we think.

  45. Lying, mistrust, jealousy,obsessing!!!

  46. Khanna:

    Too much pride.

  47. Danielle:

    Expectations. Not saying how you feel.

  48. jimenita:

    DISTANCE

  49. Moni:

    Lack of communication, neglect, doubts, familiarity.

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