Any loving words that come from my mouth! These kind of actions and statement come from deep hurt! Love is what they need. Not more hatred!
talia:
absolutely nothing. there is enough hate and bitterness. I prefer not to add negative thoughts to the universe.
Unbelievaburgers:
Fuck you, Dad!
And don’t you forget for a second how lax Virginia’s gun laws are. Just sayin’. It’s just an interesting fact I’m bringing up for no particular reason whatsoever.
I can’t tell you how many times I have heard parents say that it breaks their heart to hear their kids say they hate them. Maybe I’m a little callous but I decided long before my kids started talking that when (and I knew they would) they said that to me, I would respond “You’ll get over it.” I never responded with any anger or hurt, just that sentence matter of factly. My youngest was the worst offender insomuch that he would say “I hate you and I won’t get over it!”
They are 15, 13 & 10 now and don’t say it anymore.
Natalie:
a big, warm smile
Vicki Lynn:
I would say . . .
“Oh, you’ll get over it. I already have!”
jayzell:
“Get of and MILK it!”
jayzell:
* OFF
Susana:
I’m sorry to make you feel that way… Hope you get better in time and (quietly, calmly I will walk away)…
Heather:
chuckle and walk off.
Ellie:
That I’m sorry for them to be able to feel hate towards someone, because I’d never intentionally do something to make them hate me…
Jamie:
“Good for you.” My theory is that if I have pissed someone off enough to hate me, than I have done something to challenge them…we all need to be challenged in life. It makes us re-examine who we are, what we believe, and what we value. I am usually glad I could be the catalyst for a person to do that.
garfield:
You hate me? Lol. (yes, I ACTUALLY say lol IRL)
msgemini:
well sorrrrrrrrrrrrrryyy im the darkness in your life.. jeez
jasmine:
why
Nic:
Smile and say, “I’m sorry you feel that way.” It’s often quite entertaining to watch them try to work out how to respond.
Hannah:
ignore what they said, and feel sorry for them being such an unhappy person
Sally:
Karma is a wonderful thing!
BubblesQ:
I dont care. I dont know you and you dont know me. What you see is what you get.
stunned and speechless
nothing, absolutely nothing ……. ….. .but give me a few days and I’d be sure to come up with something … I think …
“hee, who are you again? “
It used to offend me.. now nothing. you are not me. you do’t know me
Any loving words that come from my mouth! These kind of actions and statement come from deep hurt! Love is what they need. Not more hatred!
absolutely nothing. there is enough hate and bitterness. I prefer not to add negative thoughts to the universe.
Fuck you, Dad!
And don’t you forget for a second how lax Virginia’s gun laws are. Just sayin’. It’s just an interesting fact I’m bringing up for no particular reason whatsoever.
I can’t tell you how many times I have heard parents say that it breaks their heart to hear their kids say they hate them. Maybe I’m a little callous but I decided long before my kids started talking that when (and I knew they would) they said that to me, I would respond “You’ll get over it.” I never responded with any anger or hurt, just that sentence matter of factly. My youngest was the worst offender insomuch that he would say “I hate you and I won’t get over it!”
They are 15, 13 & 10 now and don’t say it anymore.
a big, warm smile
I would say . . .
“Oh, you’ll get over it. I already have!”
“Get of and MILK it!”
* OFF
I’m sorry to make you feel that way… Hope you get better in time and (quietly, calmly I will walk away)…
chuckle and walk off.
That I’m sorry for them to be able to feel hate towards someone, because I’d never intentionally do something to make them hate me…
“Good for you.” My theory is that if I have pissed someone off enough to hate me, than I have done something to challenge them…we all need to be challenged in life. It makes us re-examine who we are, what we believe, and what we value. I am usually glad I could be the catalyst for a person to do that.
You hate me? Lol. (yes, I ACTUALLY say lol IRL)
well sorrrrrrrrrrrrrryyy im the darkness in your life.. jeez
why
Smile and say, “I’m sorry you feel that way.” It’s often quite entertaining to watch them try to work out how to respond.
ignore what they said, and feel sorry for them being such an unhappy person
Karma is a wonderful thing!
I dont care. I dont know you and you dont know me. What you see is what you get.