I always try to remember that negativity is only temporary, and that the support system (such as my family and friends, and my passions) are permanent, and will always be there for me when I need them to be. I think to past events in my life, which have not only helped shape who I am, but have also restored my faith in trusting others. Most of the time, counting one’s blessings and acknowledging these small, minuscule things are all a person needs to help lift them up out of the darkness.
Susan:
When surrounded by negativity I thank God and practice the discipline of thanksgiving.
Paul:
When in such a situation, if I cannot leave the situation, I try to keep in mind that others’ negativity is not MY negativity. If possible, I try to reframe their negativity into a positive statement or situation.
Aiyana:
I tell myself that I’m not homeless, blind, or deaf, or going through any other horrible situation. Life goes on, so I also tell myself that I’ll get over the situation or person like I usually do.
Also,
I keep a gratitude journal, to document areas of appreciation that I encounter throughout the week. I also keep a positivity stack of flash cards to constantly remind myself of positive sayings or mantras when/if a negative situation arrives!
Alicia Marie:
I have a beautiful and amazing daughter who loves me and needs me & is the sunshine of my life.
I think of the night stars I saw on my way back driving to school. Life is wondrous and my problems are insignificant. No matter how trapped I feel, I still have the right to breath fresh air and enjoy the stars at night.
Eljai:
Music
Vish:
visting temple,church… for silent .. and +ive mind..
Randy Seabrook:
I always think about all of the blessings God has already given me and I am grateful for this life I have the privilege of living. I am strong, healthy, have a roof over my head, food to eat, and a loving family. Nothing negative can ever compare to the abundance in my life. Negativity cannot last long in the face of love and gratitude.
Om Mani Padme Hum is a Chant from Buddhism that has changed a lot for me.
Alicia:
This too shall pass….
Alicia:
I try to count my blessings and focus on the positives.
ghulam murtaza khan:
cheating, lying
Will:
Meditate, appreciate, have some fun.
Jamie:
You either change your behavior or change people.
Healthy people don’t support or continue relationships with negative people.
Sandilya:
i just remember one thing…fetch for positive in every day even if someday you have to look harder… challenge will make you strong… and now it has become like a drug to me and automatically only positive is visible to me now… some tome i waana cry but this never lets me go down below the line…
rayneir:
You did what had to be done.
claire:
Something good is about to happen. Just believe. 🙂
Rach:
God
Curt:
Negativity for me is like the bridge Shrek and Donkey had to crossover. It shakie, unsecure and sometimes even dangerous! And don’t look down. That’s Negativity focusing on the problems. (the bridge) then do what donkey did. Look down, look around, look from where you have come, look where you are now, you half way across. Look at your situation smack bang in the face then look at your destination, and go get it. As I write this we are all been retrenched at our company, it’s not a nice bridge to cross there is tons of negativity from the staff. I and only I can say it to myself, “this is the best place you have ever been in your life!” and at 49 year old, I will have to do something that I have never done before. But I will crossover this bridge and as I do it I will enjoy the view.
Intimus:
I think of tomorrow.
Maureen:
That it will all end one day. ‘It can’t rain forever, the sun’s got to shine again.’
Now, I only need to have more belief in this statement because sometimes I feel it is not enough.
sterling:
i always believe and there is hope. if there is a will there is a way
Lawrence:
i say to myself that death is not the worst thing that could happen to man..so why worry about smaller things
Joleen:
1. I have friends I can call 24/7 and they will help me
2. It’s just a period, it’s ging to be better soon
3. I remind me of what I want so see in my life and that I don’t have to spend the next few years somewhere I don’t like.
Thao:
The death
Wayne C.:
Pain IS temporary! There IS light at the end of the tunnel of misery.
Teresa:
I am worthy of love, this too shall pass
Ayush:
I just Google my problem and it never disappoints me. Read some solutions for the problem and execute them.
BubblesQ:
Happy Thoughts. Read blogs about life motivations. Look at beatiful and happy photos.
AnonymousLady:
I always try to remember that negativity is only temporary, and that the support system (such as my family and friends, and my passion) are permanent, and will always be there for me when I need them to be and I think of the night stars I saw on my way back driving to places. Life is wondrous and my problems are insignificant. No matter how trapped I feel, I still have the right to breath fresh air and enjoy the stars at night.
LadyJustice:
When negativity surrounds me I try to remember that I don’t have to let it in.
I always try to remember that negativity is only temporary, and that the support system (such as my family and friends, and my passions) are permanent, and will always be there for me when I need them to be. I think to past events in my life, which have not only helped shape who I am, but have also restored my faith in trusting others. Most of the time, counting one’s blessings and acknowledging these small, minuscule things are all a person needs to help lift them up out of the darkness.
When surrounded by negativity I thank God and practice the discipline of thanksgiving.
When in such a situation, if I cannot leave the situation, I try to keep in mind that others’ negativity is not MY negativity. If possible, I try to reframe their negativity into a positive statement or situation.
I tell myself that I’m not homeless, blind, or deaf, or going through any other horrible situation. Life goes on, so I also tell myself that I’ll get over the situation or person like I usually do.
marcandangel.com 🙂
Also,
I keep a gratitude journal, to document areas of appreciation that I encounter throughout the week. I also keep a positivity stack of flash cards to constantly remind myself of positive sayings or mantras when/if a negative situation arrives!
I have a beautiful and amazing daughter who loves me and needs me & is the sunshine of my life.
My best friend, my love…..
Felt graceful and run from negativity
I think of the night stars I saw on my way back driving to school. Life is wondrous and my problems are insignificant. No matter how trapped I feel, I still have the right to breath fresh air and enjoy the stars at night.
Music
visting temple,church… for silent .. and +ive mind..
I always think about all of the blessings God has already given me and I am grateful for this life I have the privilege of living. I am strong, healthy, have a roof over my head, food to eat, and a loving family. Nothing negative can ever compare to the abundance in my life. Negativity cannot last long in the face of love and gratitude.
that love is all, and life is short.
Om Mani Padme Hum is a Chant from Buddhism that has changed a lot for me.
This too shall pass….
I try to count my blessings and focus on the positives.
cheating, lying
Meditate, appreciate, have some fun.
You either change your behavior or change people.
Healthy people don’t support or continue relationships with negative people.
i just remember one thing…fetch for positive in every day even if someday you have to look harder… challenge will make you strong… and now it has become like a drug to me and automatically only positive is visible to me now… some tome i waana cry but this never lets me go down below the line…
You did what had to be done.
Something good is about to happen. Just believe. 🙂
God
Negativity for me is like the bridge Shrek and Donkey had to crossover. It shakie, unsecure and sometimes even dangerous! And don’t look down. That’s Negativity focusing on the problems. (the bridge) then do what donkey did. Look down, look around, look from where you have come, look where you are now, you half way across. Look at your situation smack bang in the face then look at your destination, and go get it. As I write this we are all been retrenched at our company, it’s not a nice bridge to cross there is tons of negativity from the staff. I and only I can say it to myself, “this is the best place you have ever been in your life!” and at 49 year old, I will have to do something that I have never done before. But I will crossover this bridge and as I do it I will enjoy the view.
I think of tomorrow.
That it will all end one day. ‘It can’t rain forever, the sun’s got to shine again.’
Now, I only need to have more belief in this statement because sometimes I feel it is not enough.
i always believe and there is hope. if there is a will there is a way
i say to myself that death is not the worst thing that could happen to man..so why worry about smaller things
1. I have friends I can call 24/7 and they will help me
2. It’s just a period, it’s ging to be better soon
3. I remind me of what I want so see in my life and that I don’t have to spend the next few years somewhere I don’t like.
The death
Pain IS temporary! There IS light at the end of the tunnel of misery.
I am worthy of love, this too shall pass
I just Google my problem and it never disappoints me. Read some solutions for the problem and execute them.
Happy Thoughts. Read blogs about life motivations. Look at beatiful and happy photos.
I always try to remember that negativity is only temporary, and that the support system (such as my family and friends, and my passion) are permanent, and will always be there for me when I need them to be and I think of the night stars I saw on my way back driving to places. Life is wondrous and my problems are insignificant. No matter how trapped I feel, I still have the right to breath fresh air and enjoy the stars at night.
When negativity surrounds me I try to remember that I don’t have to let it in.