I agree fully with Susan, but add feeling guilty about things that really have nothing to do with me or the way i behaved
Stephanie:
I think I’m a loser whenever I accomplish something because when I do it, it’s never enough. I should be doing everything. That’s stupid, of course, but it’s how it is.
For instance, I have three photos that are to be published with a book. One is the front cover, one is the back cover, and the last is one that will appear at the beginning of each chapter. It’s for a technical book for a national organization. I just saw the layout yesterday. On one hand, this is, “WOW!!!!!! My dream of becoming a professional photographer is finally coming true. I’m making this happen!” On the other hand, this is, “I suck. I didn’t write the book, and I am capable of having done so. Who cares about the photos?”
I beat myself up figuratively whenever I win, because the win is never enough, no matter what the win is.
Lauren:
Sit in self-pity; such a waste of time
Healing:
I don’t admit what I know is the truth about my past. And I wish I didn’t spend so much time lingering on it
Nikki:
I compare myself to others. After being cheated on by past boyfriends, I now feel as though I will never be “good” enough.
Sapphire:
I feel like I am not good enough to be around people because of what I have been told through out most of my life. I also feel that my life isn’t worth as much as someone else’s.
Hotchkiss:
Telling myself “Later. I still have time.”
Navyshebee:
Stay home caved up instead of enjoying life,working on it though.
vcm:
procrastinate a healthy lifestyle due to laziness or time
Salome:
Denying my true desires.
ALP:
Doubt myself
Dizzy Dean:
Um…masterbate?
Grace:
i procrastinate, so i give myself grief
KK:
I feel sorry for myself.
Shannon:
Harm myself
alyah:
Self destruct.
I tear myself away to adopt other’s personalities.
I don’t know who I am anymore.
Bala:
Think y it is not happening to me
Jess:
Self-harm
kroogar:
I tell myself that I fit the last half of the old Oscar Wilde quote: “Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go”.
I feel bad when my children tell me they love me and what a great dad I am. Because I feel I’m not.
I tell myself that people around me will be happier if I were not around.
I isolate myself. I block people from writing me through Hangouts, bounce their mail etc.
I make myself feel guilty, stupid, and a failure.
tell myself people don’t want me around
I agree fully with Susan, but add feeling guilty about things that really have nothing to do with me or the way i behaved
I think I’m a loser whenever I accomplish something because when I do it, it’s never enough. I should be doing everything. That’s stupid, of course, but it’s how it is.
For instance, I have three photos that are to be published with a book. One is the front cover, one is the back cover, and the last is one that will appear at the beginning of each chapter. It’s for a technical book for a national organization. I just saw the layout yesterday. On one hand, this is, “WOW!!!!!! My dream of becoming a professional photographer is finally coming true. I’m making this happen!” On the other hand, this is, “I suck. I didn’t write the book, and I am capable of having done so. Who cares about the photos?”
I beat myself up figuratively whenever I win, because the win is never enough, no matter what the win is.
Sit in self-pity; such a waste of time
I don’t admit what I know is the truth about my past. And I wish I didn’t spend so much time lingering on it
I compare myself to others. After being cheated on by past boyfriends, I now feel as though I will never be “good” enough.
I feel like I am not good enough to be around people because of what I have been told through out most of my life. I also feel that my life isn’t worth as much as someone else’s.
Telling myself “Later. I still have time.”
Stay home caved up instead of enjoying life,working on it though.
procrastinate a healthy lifestyle due to laziness or time
Denying my true desires.
Doubt myself
Um…masterbate?
i procrastinate, so i give myself grief
I feel sorry for myself.
Harm myself
Self destruct.
I tear myself away to adopt other’s personalities.
I don’t know who I am anymore.
Think y it is not happening to me
Self-harm
I tell myself that I fit the last half of the old Oscar Wilde quote: “Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go”.
I feel bad when my children tell me they love me and what a great dad I am. Because I feel I’m not.
I tell myself that people around me will be happier if I were not around.
I isolate myself. I block people from writing me through Hangouts, bounce their mail etc.
I feel miserable.